Reality television personality Kristin Cavallari is sharing details about a recent Valentine’s Day party in Los Angeles that she described as unsettling and heavily secured, as reported by  Page Six.

During Tuesday’s episode of her podcast “Let’s Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari,” the 39-year-old recalled being invited to what she said was “literally” called a “Slutty Valentine’s Day party.”

Cavallari said she was on a plane heading to Los Angeles when her friend Sophie invited her to the event, explaining that she had to download an ultra-exclusive app just to RSVP.

“This app thinks it’s Raya, it’s so secretive,” she said, referencing the celebrity dating platform. “It’s like Fort Knox getting in.”

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Cavallari described the party’s dress code in detail.

“The dress code says, ‘Wear white if you’re single, pink if you’re heartbroken, black if you’re horny and nude if you’re slutty,’” she said. “And in my head I’m like, I have black leather pants and a nude top.”

“Wait, so what is that combination?” podcast guest Jason Anderson asked.

“Slutty and horny!” Cavallari exclaimed.

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“You packed the right outfit,” Anderson joked, later describing the concept as a “nasty party” and a “dirty party.”

Cavallari said the app used for invitations blocked screenshots, adding to the mystery surrounding the event.

“Fort Knox, I’m telling you,” she said. “So I’m like, ‘What is this party? Where am I going? Part of me is like really excited and part of me is like, ’What the f— am I about to get myself into?'”

She recalled meeting up with Sophie and other friends ahead of the Saturday, Feb. 14 event before heading to the location, where she said the security measures stood out immediately.

“And we go to this, it was literally called ‘Slutty Valentine’s Day Party,’ So we get there, and it is probably the craziest security I’ve ever seen for a party or an event,” Cavallari said.

“There is security just to get through the gate, and that, and by the way, you need a QR code to get through the gate. And then once you get through the gate, there’s a checkpoint where you have to check in, see that your name’s on the list. And then they put a sticker over your phone.”

“Over the camera,” she added. “So shady. So I’m like, ‘Jesus Christ. What are we about to walk into?’”

Cavallari described the home as having a 1970s aesthetic and compared it to the film “Boogie Nights,” noting colored lighting and a pool area. She said guests were directed downstairs.

“So we’re walking down these stairs, and I’m not kidding. All of a sudden, it’s like we turn the corner, and we enter a nightclub,” she said.

“There’s like a nightclub at the bottom of this house. Even with a room – with like a cage – with a stripper pole.”

When she and her group entered the room, Cavallari said they immediately noticed the atmosphere.

“Like the heat from all the dancing, the sweaty just —and the energy was so sketchy,” she said.

“It felt like a drug den. It felt like — hookers. I didn’t see one, I couldn’t sit here and be like I saw any foul play. I didn’t see any drugs. I didn’t see — but it just felt like that.”

She also described the air as “dirty,” saying she and her friends left quickly.

“We were there for, I’m not kidding, four minutes,” she said.

Although the party was “packed,” Cavallari said she did not see any celebrities, which she said made the tight security more puzzling.

“But also, we were like in our little group being like, ‘We gotta get the f— outta here,’” she said. “Like we were all so creeped out.”

Cavallari also commented on the attire of other attendees.

“The outfits that these girls were in — and by the way, like I’m not one to judge — but like they took slutty very literally,” she said. “Like, in just lingerie and stuff. Just, yeah, I don’t know. It was interesting.”

After leaving, Cavallari said she and her friends attended a separate wrap party where guests included Chris Brown and Ty Dolla $ign. She said the second event felt more relaxed, and she met a “really cute guy.”

“We’ve been talking,” she said, adding that he is nine years younger than her.

Cavallari, who has previously dated Mark Estes, who was 13 years younger than her, recently outlined her dating dealbreakers.

“Someone who doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want any.”

“But here we are. No kids. 30,” she said.

She added that the two have continued “chatting” and that he may visit her in Nashville.

“I think he’s going to come to Nashville next weekend,” she said.

“And not stay with me,” Cavallari clarified. “But like, just take me on a date. Take me to dinner.”

Watch the full episode: